Yes, you love that restaurant you always go to, but not to go every day. You love being given affection and love, but not at all times. It would be best if you had someone to get you out of the routine and not to remind you that you often live in it.
Before complaining, Aries, what you should do is make sure that your partner knows your little quirks. Make sure they know that you hate repetitiveness and that they understand your adventurous nature. If he does not realize that this lifestyle does not suit you, make them risk you from time to time. Make him see that you have to put adrenaline and adventure to life. Together look for those plans that you both like.
Try to mix things up from time to time, and even if you have a couple of routines, look for something that breaks the monotony. The critical thing, Aries, is that if something bothers you, try to change it, or perhaps it is best to understand the other person as well. Perhaps that person is like that for some reason, because they are afraid of change or because they do not like to take risks. But you are already very much in love with her, and it is too late to go back. Perhaps now it is best to reach an intermediate agreement.