For you, Aries, independence is something that you value very much. You pride yourself when most people see you as an independent. As someone who does not fear anything, faces all his problems and is not afraid.
You love being a brave, fighter, and warrior person. On the other hand, you also like to be the one holding the reins. Aries, face it, you love being the leader, and you love it when people turn to you for advice or help. You love being an example to follow for others.
But, your insecurities come from the hand of that independence that you like so much.
One of your biggest insecurities is feeling lost. Feeling that you are "alone," that the situation will be able to with you and not knowing what to do to get out of it.
Your biggest fear, Aries, is asking others for advice. Yes, you feel lost many times, but you are afraid to ask for advice from the people around you.
When you need help, you hide and shut yourself up because you are afraid that others think you are vulnerable instead of seeking support and comfort from others. You think you can't set that example, and you can't go hard through life so that later they see that you're not as strong as you seemed.
But you have to learn, Aries, that asking for help does not make you weaker or more vulnerable, if not the opposite. Acknowledging your fears, your mistakes, your flaws, makes you stronger. It makes you an accurate, imperfect, brave person.
Fight your insecurities, Aries, fight what scares you. It's okay to ask for help when you need it. Just as you give, you also receive the perfect balance. Don't worry, Aries, because in the end, overcoming your insecurities is going to be much easier than you thought.