Why You Get the Love of Your Life




Aries

When you start to like someone, you want to know immediately how the other person feels about you. You want to know what is happening between the two of you. You walk away from love because you are too impatient to wait and play the ‘game’ of love.

When you like someone, you want things to go as quickly as possible.

You hate those moments when you don’t know if you are friends, if you are something else, or what you are. You do not find the emotion in those moments, and that is where you often decide to get away from love. It would be best if you had speed, adrenaline, rhythm.

Aries, learn to know how to wait and to trust more in yourself and the other person. Suppose you don’t get into anxiety about wanting everything now. You walk away from love before you have a chance or go so fast that you can scare the other person—all in due time.

Taurus

You kick love out of your life because you fight for commitment.

You are Taurus, and that means you are a bit stubborn. 

You usually see things only from your point of view, and it is difficult for you to change your mind and at least listen to the opinions of others, and that in a relationship is not easy. It can be a dangerous thing to your relationships, Taurus, if you never let your partner express himself and his opinion. And also, that little mania you have with commitment also makes you sometimes want to get away from love.

If you see that the other person is unwilling to maintain a long-term relationship and wants fun, you walk away.

If you want to fall in love, Taurus, you need to lower the level of pride in your life and your level of stubbornness a bit. 

You have to know, Taurus, that it is allowed to be wrong and also allowed to be a more flexible person. Do not run from love because it can be one of the most beautiful things you will ever live.

Gemini

Gemini, you withdraw love and throw it out of your life because having fun matters to you. The moment you notice that a relationship gets serious, you take a step back and stay on the sidelines.

It takes a lot for you to commit because you think that if you commit, you will be losing a lot of things, and you will be losing a lot of people. You are convinced that someone else is waiting for you, that someone better will be around the corner.

You are constantly running away from love because you are afraid of being tied down, locked in a relationship, and losing your life.

Gemini, you don’t have to kick the love of your life to enjoy it. You have to learn to enjoy stability and everything your partner can bring you. Being in a relationship can also bring you many things, and you will learn to be a better person with others and with yourself. You might even realize that life as a couple is something you like.

Cancer

There are times that you cast the love of your life because you are too insecure to let someone enter your heart. They hurt you so much in the past that right now, you don’t feel like having that sour drink again. You’re still heartbroken, and until you fix it and it’s back to the same condition as before, you don’t want anyone to get into it again.

You don’t want anyone to meet those ghosts from the past and have to fight them. You are the only one who must face them and defeat them. And there are also times when you run away because you meet people who are too superficial and look only at the physical and appearances, which is not what you want in your life.

You run away when you cannot find a person willing to reach out to your heart, love your defects, and help with your weaknesses. 

You run away because you can’t find the perfect person. Cancer is no one perfect. We all have our flaws. Stop worrying so much and let someone make you believe in love again.

Leo

Leo, you expel the love of your life because you are afraid of having to settle your head and live a routine life. You are a Leo, and you know that you are a person with a lot of power. You don’t want to end up with someone who doesn’t deserve you or doesn’t know how to value you. But maybe that’s why you are a bit of a picky person.

You leave the bar quite a bit, and few people are capable of surpassing you. But, Leo, remember that you do not need someone who exceeds your expectations, if not someone who can accept you, value you, and love you as you deserve, nothing more.

You will not find anyone perfect, and we have already let you know. 

Leo, do not run away from love so much and try to appreciate and accept others for who they are. You will find people like you, with their pluses, minuses, virtues, and fears—real people, not perfect people who only exist in your thoughts.

It will be easier for you to find love if you lower your expectations a little and if you are not so demanding.

Virgo

You expel the love of your life, Virgo, because you quickly find faults and mistakes in relationships. In that aspect, you are quite a complex person with yourself and with others. You can be a very patient person, but you don’t have much stamina.

You run away from love basically because you don’t think you will be able to bear a person.

You run away because you thought you had found a perfect person, but you have realized that you did not. Virgo, you have to start learning to deal with the flaws of others and learn to accept that perfection does not exist and that it is simply in your mind.

Even you are not perfect, and you know it. You will miss out on many beautiful things if you keep going like this.

Stop concentrating only on the bad, open your mind, and let yourself go. Don’t try to control everything, Virgo, don’t try to make everything perfect because it will never be.

Libra

You walk away from love, Libra, because you are afraid of being hurt again. You have been hurt a lot in the past, and now you don’t feel like going through there again.

You don’t feel like suffering again. That is why you have decided to give up anything that has to do with love to make sure that you will never suffer so much again.

You have decided never to leave your heart in the hands of anyone. You even see yourself forced to give up plans, appointments, and people because of the fear in your mind. 

Give up anyone who tries to get close to you, not because you are not interested, but because you are afraid that your heart will break again. But Libra, you can’t be like this all your life. You cannot continue with that unstoppable fear. You are powerful, and you know it.

You have matured, grown, and thanks to everything you have experienced, you will not suffer like that again. Trust others a little more. It is the only way you can find love.

Scorpio

You, Scorpio, walk away from love because you have some other trust problem. You never let anyone get too close because that would be giving them a chance to hit damage.

You have a hard time trusting others, even more so when it comes to matters related to your own heart. In these cases, you walk with heavy feet because you fear breaking your heart.

You are a very passionate and quite sensitive person, which is why you are afraid of suffering.

You know that it will hurt you more than someone else. But, Scorpio, healthy and good love will never hurt you. You have to let people show you who they are, and there you choose if a relationship is worth it. But at least you need to give those who want to show you their heart a chance.

If that person loves you, they will never hurt you. Also, you will even grow and become much more robust. It isn’t easy, but don’t run away Scorpio.

Sagittarius

You walk away from love, Sagittarius, because you have very high expectations.

You are very romantic, Sagittarius, and you believe that others are perfect and that relationships are easy to carry. 

You think love is lived without complications, and you are very far from reality. When you finally decide to date someone, you realize that nothing is perfect. That everyone has their flaws and mistakes and that anyone can be wrong. Even in those moments, you feel disappointed that people do not meet your expectations. It’s not the fault of others. It’s your fault.

You thought it would be perfect, but that will never be the case, Sagittarius. There is nothing and no one perfect. Not even you are.

Try to appreciate others for being who they are. You have to stop expecting so much from others, Sagittarius because you hit reality on the forehead, and it hurts. You have to let others be themselves and not create so many ideals.

Capricorn

You miss the love of your life, Capricorn, because you don’t have time. Or that’s at least the excuse you make.

You say that you are too busy with work or want to focus only on yourself. 

Sometimes they are not excuses because it is true that you are a very ambitious person and that you always have many things to do. But if you think about it, Capricorn, you will always have something to do and never have time to do anything. But you have to start organizing to make time.

You have to find a space for love in your life, Capri.

You also have to know that love won’t steal your time. Learn to separate your love life from your work. You can also have time for yourself while you go out with someone. You have to be more flexible with schedules and how you structure your life. Nothing happens if you have to cancel a plan or do not have time to do something one day. There is always time for everything if you want to.

Aquarius

You kick out the love of your life, Aquarius, because you don’t let anyone know how you feel. It is true that you are a very sentimental person, but only from the inside. From doors to outside, you are forbidden to express any emotion.

You hate that others see you as a vulnerable person and are afraid that they might play on those feelings. And when you realize that you are starting to fall in love with someone, you run away without looking back.

You run away because you start to realize that your feelings could come to light and put you in danger at any moment.

Aquarius, you must know that love and feelings can make anyone vulnerable, not just you. And love will always make you feel that way, be it now or in the future. You will always be afraid of your feelings, but in the end, all this is going to be worth it. I assure you, Aquarius.

Pisces

Pisces, you walk away from love because you have pretty high expectations.

You always believe that love is butterflies, happiness, rose petals, and candles. This is not precisely the case. It may be, but it is also other things.

Love also works, discussions, respect, and commitment. And when you realize that love does not meet your expectations and that it is not how you want it to be, you run away. Simply because you think that kind of love is not for you. Pisces, you have to start accepting that love is not perfect. It also has its ups and downs, and nothing happens if you have to argue with your partner.

Arguing does not mean that your relationship is going to end. It’s good to talk about things, both the good and the bad. It’s okay to disagree.

You have to find someone worth fighting for, arguing, and exchanging opinions. You will see how you will be grateful for having gone through all those moments in the end.

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