As you get to know your partner, you realize that some things get you out of your boxes and get on your nerves. Everyone is bothered by things and especially when you spend so much time with that person. Even when you share everything with her. Cancer, what gets on your nerves in a relationship is that your partner is someone who constantly complains about everything. It makes you sick that they are always so negative and that they try to throw your efforts overboard.
You, Cancer, also have your negative side, but you strive for it to come to light as soon as possible. And you hate that your partner transmits those energies that are not good for you at that moment.
Yes, we all know that life is hard and that it is not a bed of roses, but that does not mean that you have to be negative ALL the time. Complaining will not solve your problems, and if anything, it will make them worse.
You also complain, Cancer, but only when it is strictly necessary, or when you are at that point where you can no longer do it. Likewise, you complain about your partner when he has those attitudes. But this cannot go that far, and you also have to do your part, Cancer. Try to help your partner because maybe it's about something if he complains. Perhaps your partner is an insecure person and needs reassurance and approval.
Not everyone was born strong and may need your help to move on. Cancer, you are a very empathic person, so use that empathy and put yourself in your partner's place. Try to help him whenever possible and make him see that life is difficult but that he also has beautiful moments. Also, make him enjoy those moments and encourage him whenever necessary. If it is your partner, it is for something, and love is something that is based on trust and mutual respect.