Earning Libra's trust can be like landing the most valuable prize in the world. Truly, entering Libra's life and heart is an experience you will never forget. Having her warmth, her affection, and her love is something that cannot be explained in words. Of course, Libra is very much his and has some quirks, making getting his confidence difficult.
Libra can be a charm with everyone, but make no mistake, that does not mean that he trusts you.
Just because he is willing to lend you a hand and help you does not mean he will tell you his life and share his deepest secrets. The secret to gaining the trust of Libra is to be open and non-judgmental.
For Libra to trust you, you have to be willing to open up first.
If Libra sees that you trust him/her, they will start to think about trusting you.
You first have to open up, show yourself as you are, and tell him everything that goes through your mind. Libra will not open up and tell you everything about himself if he sees that you are unwilling to open up to the fullest.
He wants to see that you are a real person, that there is a heart behind that image and face.
He wants to know that you also have your flaws and your dark side, that you are an imperfect person. Above all, what Libra wants to ensure before trusting you is that you are not going to judge him and that he will be able to be himself or herself without fear of feeling criticized. Let's say that is the most important factor in Libra when it comes to giving his trust in someone.
Libra needs to feel comfortable and safe when they have to share their time with someone else. If he doesn't have any of this, he won't trust you now or ever.
And once you have achieved their trust, the most important thing is knowing how to maintain it, because if not all the effort has been in vain. To maintain it, the important thing is to have good communication. Libra can listen to you, but they also want to feel heard; if this fails, everything will go wrong.
Nothing can make Libra happy more than feeling that someone is willing to put up with all their doubts, all their moves, and everything that happens inside that little head.
It means a lot that someone is willing to help you when indecision takes hold of him/her.
You don't have to go crazy to keep him happy; the important thing is to communicate, talk about your problems, and share your feelings.
That's what makes Libra feel like everything is going well. That is the key to any relationship to work with Libra. Getting confidence in Libra is very simple; the problem is that some people do not know how to measure up...
