Sagittarius, you are a very independent person of character and very, very free of heart; seriously, you are like a leaf moved by the wind with a lot of desire to be in many places and with much more desire to discover, feel, experience, travel and feel.
What happens to you with love is something like what happens to someone partying with responsibilities, something similar.
You fear that love will lead you to a very monotonous and boring Sagittarius life, and you know it. You fear that love will make you settle in the same place for a long time; you fear that it will cut you off from many opportunities to try new things; it is the thing that can set you back the most when establishing a relationship, because you need independence like the air to breathe Sagittarius, without your wings, you will not go anywhere.
Your heart is an old Sagittarius lone wolf that has not needed anyone's help to become strong and brave, an old wolf that is already very cunning and that, with the passage of time, has learned much more about life than about love and you He likes Sagittarius, he likes it, and that is why he fears that love will change him and make him be a more sensitive heart.
You have some rejection of relationships at first because you don't want anyone to hold you back, you don't want anyone to decide for you, you can't stand the idea of letting your decisions be studied by someone other than you, and no, It is not a selfish act, it does not mean that you do not have empathy and that you do not take others into account, this is only fear of ceasing to be you in a world full of false people and you Sagittarius, everything but that because if there is a natural person is you.