There are certain things that you should stop doing to have a much happier and much healthier life, Virgo. You should stop making excuses that even you don't believe. Although it is tempting to keep making excuses, you should make an effort to acknowledge your actions and your mistakes. Stop making excuses to cover up reality. You do not like to make mistakes, and that is why many times, when you make mistakes, what you try to do is invent anything to avoid admitting that you have made a mistake. But Virgo, it is much easier to admit your fault and your mistake than to invent something very far-fetched. Also, you will feel much better about yourself when you admit your failures than when you make excuses for every step you take in life.
You must be more honest with yourself and especially with others, Virgo. It is something that will cost you a lot at first because you are not used to being that way, but you will see how your relationship with others and with yourself will improve.
Another thing you should stop doing immediately is being so negative. That negativity that you always have in everything must not be good. And this, in a way, is due to your criticism and your perfectionism. And is that everything you see is a minor failure, or have you hit everything. In a particular part, this is good because it means that you are not a conformist person but that you always go further. Having very high expectations, you always think negatively because you see that it is not easy to get there.
The first thing you should do is lower your expectations and think that not everything always has to be perfect. And then you have to put the negativity aside. Many times you miss many things in life because you are so obsessed with doing things right. You should relax a bit and stop pushing yourself so much so that you can enjoy life much more, Virgo.