Virgo, now you don't want to start a serious relationship because you need time for yourself. When you are in a relationship, you always wear last. You give too much to the other person, and you forget yourself. Now that you are single, you should know that you have to look out for yourself and your well-being first and then for everyone else's. You give yourself so much when you are in a relationship that others can come to think that you do not love yourself and that you do not appreciate yourself. That is why later you are disappointed that others do not give themselves so much, but now you are very clear about what you want, and that is to listen more to what your interior says and pay more attention to yourself.
Virgo, you are quite a perfectionist person, and you want everything to turn out as well as possible.
Over the years and with experience, you have learned that there are no perfect people.
You had pretty idealized people, but you have realized that they never live up to your expectations. That is why you have stopped believing in princes charming, but that does not mean that you are going to go with the first person who appears in your life. You are not going to start a serious relationship with anyone who shows you a little love. You are not going to start the relationship because you know that you deserve something better, not something perfect, if not simply someone who accepts you as you are.
It is also possible that you have already found that person but are afraid to admit how deeply in love you are and are afraid to open your heart. You think that you are not ready or that it is not the ideal time to take the step and formalize the relationship.
You don't want to rush, and you prefer to wait to get to know that person much better. But Virgo, calm down, no one is going to rush you, and if so, then it would be better if they get used to giving you your time.
